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embraced the faith: but there exists complete unanimity
on the point that Khadija's conversion preceded that
of all the rest. There is not any reason for doubting
this. Khadija, as we have seen above, had so great a
share in Mohammed's persuasion of his prophetic call,
and welcomed it with such fervid eagerness, that it
is not easy to decide whether historical truth is better
expressed by calling her his convert or him hers. Already
at their marriage she was the proposing and he the consenting
party. Mohammed was decidedly wanting in lofty independence
and robust manliness of character. He had something
naive and almost feeble in his mental constitution,
which at a later period invited the dominating influence
of men like Abu Bekr, Omar, and others, and at the present
kept him abjectly dependent on his highminded and clear-sighted
wife Khadija. Ibn Ishak says of her: 'She was the first
who believed in God, in His apostle, and in the revelation.
Thereby God sent him comfort: for whenever he heard
something unpleasant, or was grieved by contradiction
or charges of lying, God comforted him by her, when
he returned home to her. She cheered him, made things
easy for him, assured him of her faith in him, and represented
to him the talk of the people as utterly insignificant.'
Hers was plainly the stronger mind of the two, and he
was aware of it, and good-naturedly accepted his position
of subordination. She was rich, and he profited by her
wealth. It was in her family that Hanifdom had obtained
an extensive footing, whilst his own was identified
with the interests of idolatry. He had to look up to
her in every respect. She was full of resorts and kept
her clear head above water, when lie was engulfed in
melancholy and fears.
It has been found strange that a man who later on manifested
such an excessive passion for women, and provided himself
with more than twice the complement of wives he permitted
to his followers, should have remained a practical monogamist
so long as Khadija lived; and the circumstance has been
seized upon by his advocates as a proof of his earlier
spirituality and purity. But the cogency of this proof
is more than questionable, because the general authority
and sway she exercised over him was quite sufficient
to keep him within bounds in this respect. The true
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remained a monogamist so long, was plainly not his
personal continence and spirituality, but his dread
of Khadija, whom he did not dare to offend, by adding
to her rival objects of his affection. He, later on,
gives the drastic counsel to husbands to punish refractory
wives by 'removing them into beds apart and scourging
them' (Surah iv. 38); but who can conceive that he himself
would have ventured to carry out this advice against
Khadija?
By her death he lost a master, and was set free to
carry out his long-checked propensities. What these
were can be gathered from the following anecdote of
the Rawzet ul Ahbab. Shortly after Khadija's death,
when Mohammed is represented as having been in a very
dejected state of mind, Khawla, the sympathising wife
of one of his friends, paid him a visit and asked him
why he did not marry again. He replied: 'Who is there
that I could take?' She answered: 'If thou wishest for
a virgin, there is Aisha, the daughter of thy friend
Abu Bekr; and if thou wishest for a woman, there is
Sewda who believes in thee.' He without hesitation,
solved the dilemma by saying to Khawla: 'Then ask them
both for me.' She lost no time in doing what she was
bidden, so that two months after Khadija had closed
her eyes, Mohammed was already married to the attractive
widow Sewda, who is described as tall and corpulent;
and betrothed to Aisha, who was then only a girl six
years old, and actually became his wife three years
later. Aisha herself thus refers to the way in which
her mother reared her to meet the prophet's taste: 'When
I was betrothed to the prophet, my mother endeavoured
to make me fat; and she found that with me nothing succeeded
so well as gourds and fresh dates. Eating well of them
I became round.'
This carnal taste and tendency of the Arabian prophet,
which he showed already under his adverse circumstances
in Mecca, naturally increased with his prosperity and
opportunities in Medina, and furnished Aisha with a
telling retort only a few days before his death. According
to the Rawzet ul Ahbab, Aisha narrated as follows: 'The
beginning of his Excellency's illness happened in Meimuna's
room, whose turn it was that day. Then he came to my
room, and as I had a headache, I said, "Oh, my
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