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during Omar's Califate. Ten traditions are derived
from her, of which one is generally recognised.
II. Meimuna Bint el Harith, whose previous name
was Bere, had in the time of ignorance been the wife
of Masud Ibn Omar, and after their separation was married
by Abu Dehm, or by Khuwaitab, or by Furuwet, or by Sibret,
or by Abd Yalil. After her second husband's death, the
Prophet desired her; and he married her, A.H. 7, during
his return from the Omra expedition, in the station
of Serf, not far from Mecca. It is a strange incident
that Meimuna afterwards died in the same place, and
was buried on the spot where her nuptial bed had been.
The account concerning her, deserving preference to
the rest, is this, that at the time the Prophet married
her, there was no legal impediment in the way, but according
to other accounts she was not lawful to him. It is said
that Meimuna was that lady who made a present of herself
to the Prophet. When the news reached her that the Prophet
desired her in marriage, she was mounted on a camel,
and at once said, 'I and the camel I am riding upon
are God's and His Prophet's.' Then the verse came down,
'And a believing woman has made a present of herself
to the Prophet.' But, according to another account,
the lady who gave herself as a present to the Prophet
was Zeinab Bint Jahsh, or Zeinab Bint Khazima, or a
lady from amongst the Beni Amir.
Meimuna narrated as follows: 'One night, when it was
my turn, the Apostle of God rose up from my side and
went out. Then I rose up and locked the door. After
a while his Excellency returned and knocked, but I did
not open. When he swore at me, to open, I said, "O
Apostle of God, thou goest to thy other wives in the
night of my turn." His Excellency answered: "I
did not go to them, but went somewhere else."'
According to some accounts Meimuna died A.H. 51, and
according to others, A.H. 61 or 63 or 60. According
to these latter it was Meimuna who died last of all
Mohammed's wives, and not Om Selma. The traditions derived
from her amount to seventy-six, of which seven are generally
agreed upon.
The wives above mentioned are the eleven favoured ladies
with whom the Prophet consummated marriage; and not
one of the Biographers dissents from this statement.
Only two of them, viz., Khadija and Zeinab Bint Khazima,
departed this world during the Prophet's life, and after
them that prince went to eternity, whilst the remaining
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Besides these, there are thirty other ladies, with
some of whom that Excellency contracted a marriage,
without consummating it, whilst others he asked in marriage,
without the engagement being carried out. One of them
was Fatima Bint Dhahak, to whom the Prophet left
the choice, after having married her, and who thereupon
left him, preferring the world. She at last became so
destitute that she had to gather camel-dung in the street
for fuel. She used to say, 'Take a warning from my misfortune,
because I preferred this world to God and His Apostle.'
Another was Sena, or Saba, or Asma
Bint Zalat. Soon after she had been informed of the
glad news that the Prophet had accepted her in marriage,
she also received the sad tidings that the object of
her joy had died.
Another was Melika Bint Kaab, on whose thigh
the Lord of the world observed something white, when
he was alone with her. This gave him a loathing, and
he said to her, 'Dress again, and return to thy people.'
Another was Asma Bint Noaman. Her father, the
chief of his tribe, on coming to the Prophet and professing
belief in him, said 'O Apostle of God, I have a daughter,
the most beautiful of the women of Arabia. She is as
yet without a husband, and has a strong desire to be
ennobled with the nobility of thy bed.' The Prophet
accepted her, and gave her father Noaman 12 1/2 pounds
of money for her dower. Noaman asked for a higher dowry;
but on the Prophet assuring him, that he had not given
more to any of his wives, nor asked more for his own
daughters, he consented; and his daughter was sent for
by one of the Prophet's confidential men. As soon as
the fame of her beauty had spread in Medina, the ladies
of the city came to see her. The mothers of the believers
instructed one of the women to convey this message to
her: 'Thou art the daughter of a chief: if therefore
thou wishest to find more luck here, thou hadst better
say to him, as soon as he is alone with thee, "I
take refuge with God from thee!" for this will
multiply his inclination and love towards thee.' According
to another account, the Prophet's pure wives were very
jealous of Asma from the moment she had arrived; and,
feigning affection for her, sought to mislead her. Aisha
said to Hafza, 'Do thou burn henna on her hands, and
I will dress her hair.' So when her head was being dressed,
one of them said to that unfortunate one, 'The Prophet
exceedingly loves any woman, who, as soon as they are
alone, turns her back upon him, and says, " I take
refuge with God from thee!"' So when that prince
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