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Although the chiefs and nobles of the Koreish asked
her in marriage, after Abu Hala's death, she refused
them, because in a dream she had seen the sun come down
to her house from the sky, and diffuse such light, that
there remained not a house in Mecca without being illuminated
by it. On waking from her sleep, she went to her cousin
Waraka Ibn Nawfal and told him her dream, because he
was exceedingly expert in the science of interpretation.
He said to her, 'O Khadija, the prophet of the latter
time is to be thy husband.' She asked, 'From which country
is that prophet to appear?' Waraka answered, 'From Mecca.'
Khadija inquired, 'From which tribe?' Waraka replied,
'From the Koreish.' Khadija asked again, 'From which
family?' Waraka answered, 'From the Beni Hashim.' Khadija
inquired, 'What is his name?' Waraka replied, 'Mohammed.'
Khadija thus knowing whence that sun was to arise, at
once began to wait for it. So it happened that one day,
when that Excellency was dining at Abu Talib's table,
Atika, the sister of the latter, was also present, and
both observed his propriety and good manners. When he
had left, after dinner, Abu Talib said to Atika, 'Mohammed
is a grown-up youth, and the time has come for him to
marry, but he never speaks to us on the subject. O Atika,
what is to be done in the matter?' Atika replied, 'Khadija
is an exceedingly blessed lady of noble birth and station
who is about sending a caravan to Syria; we can do nothing
better than take some merchandise from Khadija for Mohammed,
to trade with at their joint profit.' After having consulted
with Mohammed, who approved the plan, Atika went to
Khadija and communicated to her the state of affairs.
Khadija, reflecting for a while, said, 'Is this perhaps
the interpretation of my dream? This person is an Arab
of Mecca, a Hashimite of the Koreish; his name is Mohammed,
he is of a beautiful countenance and pleasant manners,
a truth-speaking, faithful, man: is this, perhaps, the
promised prophet?' Then she accepted the proposal, and
became ennobled with the nobility of the bed of the
Lord of the apostles. She was the first lady whom that
Excellency married, she being 40 and he 25 years of
age. All that Excellency's male and female children
were by her, with the only exception of Ibrahim, who
was born by Mary the Copt. As the Lord of the world
paid much respect to Khadija's wishes, he did not take
another wife in addition to her.
The good qualities and virtues of Khadija were many.
All agree that she was the first person who was ennobled
with the nobility of Islam, believing in his Excellency,
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for his pleasure. According to sound tradition, his
Excellency declared that Mary, the daughter of Amram,
and Khadija, were the two noblest women of Paradise;
and he also said that the mistresses of the ladies of
Paradise were, Mary, Fatima, Khadija, and Asia, Pharaoh's
wife. According to a tradition derived from Abu Horeira,
Gabriel once came to his Excellency and said, 'O Apostle
of God, Khadija is coming to bring thee a basin full
of savoury food; when she has come, give her a salutation
from her Preserver and from me, and announce to her
the good news that she has a house in Paradise, made
of a hollowed-out pearl, in which there is not any adversity
or affliction.' When that Excellency delivered the salutation
from the Most High and from Gabriel, Khadija said in
reply, 'Truly, God is peace, and from Him comes peace;
and peace be upon Gabriel and upon the Apostle of God,
and upon every one who hears the salutation, except
Satan.'
It is recorded that Aisha the faithful said, 'I felt
no jealousy with regard to any one of the Prophet's
wives, except Khadija, though she was no longer living
when I was ennobled with the nobility of that Excellency's
bed. He so much remembered her, that sometimes he would
slay a sheep and divide it amongst her friends. So I
said to his Excellency, "It seems there is no woman
in the world except Khadija." His Excellency replied,
"Khadija had many fine points, and my children
came from her." On another occasion Khadija's sister
Hala knocked at the door, in a way which reminded the
Prophet of Khadija's knocking. He became sad and sorrowful,
according to one account, or bright and cheerful, according
to another, and said, "The person knocking must
be Hala." This word of his Excellency so roused
my jealousy that I called out, "How much thou rememberest
an old woman from amongst the old females of the Koreish,
who had no tooth left in her mouth, and had already
spent her life, and yet the Most High has given thee
something better in her stead!" This observation
made his Excellency so angry that the hairs stood up
on his forehead, and he said, "By Allah! the Most
High has not given me a better one than she was; she
had believed in me at a time when all the people were
still unbelievers, and testified in my favour when all
the world was denying me; and she assisted me with her
fortune when all other people were shunning me; and
by her the Most High gave me children."' Aisha
adds, 'After this I made up my mind never again to say
anything derogatory of Khadija.'
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