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Apostle of God, and that thou hast been the only
wife he married as a virgin, and that a verse came down
from heaven in thy justification.' After he had left,
Abd Allah Ibn Zobeir entered, to whom she said, 'Ibn
Abbas has been here and praised me, although to-day
I do not take pleasure in any one's coming and praising
me. What would it have mattered, if I had been a sun-dried
brick? Would, I had been some such thing, so that no
one had taken my name in his mouth; and would, I had
never been created!' She died, A.H. 58, more than 66
years of age.
4. Hafza, the daughter of Omar Ibn Khattab.
Before she became the Prophet's wife, she had been married
to Khanis, who was one of the fugitives to Abyssinia,
and afterwards one of the combatants of Bedr. After
his death, A.H. 2 or 3, the Prophet married her, as
soon as her legal time of waiting was over.
It is reported that when Hafza's first husband was
dead, her father, Omar, offered her to Othman, whose
wife Rokaia, daughter of Mohammed, had just died. Othman
asked for time to consider, and then declined the offer.
Omar went to Mohammed to complain of Othman's conduct,
and the Prophet settled the affair by saying, 'May God
give to Othman a better woman than thy daughter, and
to thy daughter a better husband than Othman!' This
wish was speedily fulfilled; for Mohammed himself married
Hafza, and gave his own daughter Om Koltum to Othman.
It is also reported that Omar had offered Hafza to
Abu Bekr, who gave him no answer whatever, so that he
felt greatly incensed. But one day, after Mohammed's
marriage with Hafza, when Abu Bekr met Omar, he accosted
him thus, 'Perhaps thou art offended with me for having
left thee without an answer, when thou hadst offered
me thy daughter Hafza.' Omar replying, 'Yes, I was very
much offended,' Abu Bekr continued, 'The truth is, that
nothing prevented me from accepting her, except my knowing
that the Apostle of God had set his heart on having
her, and it was in order not to betray that Excellency's
secret, that I did not give thee an answer then.'
It is recorded that later on the prince of the world
divorced Hafza. Omar, as soon as this news reached him,
cast earth upon his head and became very disconsolate.
On the next day Gabriel descended, saying 'O Mohammed,
in order to show mercy to Omar, God requests of thee
to return to Hafza.' Hafza was born five years before
the prophetic mission, and died in the reign of Moawia,
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books derive sixty traditions from her, of which
six are generally received.
5. Zeinab, Bint Khazima, had been married to
three successive husbands before Mohammed, the first
of whom divorced her, and the second and third were
killed respectively in the battles of Bedr and Ohod.
His Excellency married her A.H. 9. She had only been
eight months in his house when she died, or, according
to another account, three months. She was called 'the
Mother of the Poor,' because of her compassion for them,
and the abundant alms which she bestowed upon them.
6. Om Selma or Hind, Bint Abu Omia,
was first married to Abu Selma, Mohammed's cousin, to
whom she bore four children. Of these, two emigrated
with their parents to Abyssinia, and afterwards to Medina.
Abu Selma was wounded in the battle of Ohod, and his
wound closed. When Mohammed sent him on an expedition,
it reopened and became the cause of his death. Their
love for each other was so great that they made a covenant
to the effect that whoever should survive the other,
should not marry again. But before his death, Abu Selma
said to his wife, ' When I die, do not thou suffer trouble,
but marry again, and may God give thee a husband better
than myself, who will never pain or grieve thee.'
Om Selma says, 'When Abu Selma was dead, I thought
of these words, but said to myself, Who can be a better
husband to me than he was? I had no idea of marrying
again. I went to his Excellency, saying to him, "Thou
knowest that Abu Selma is dead, what prayer shall I
offer in my loneliness?" He replied, "Say,
O God, forgive me and him, and give me something better
in his stead." Then I persevered in offering up
this prayer, and God gave me something better than Abu
Selma; he gave me in wedlock to the Apostle of God.'
According to another account, his Excellency went to
Om Selma's house, after her husband's death, to condole
with her, and prayed, 'O God, assuage her grief, remove
her trouble, and compensate her by some one better than
Abu Selma.' Afterwards, events turned out in accordance
with this prayer.
It is recorded that when Om Selma's time of mourning
was over, both Abu Bekr and Omar desired to marry her,
but she declined them both. On his Excellency proposing
to her, she replied, 'Welcome, O Apostle of God; but
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