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only a share with thy many other wives; and, moreover,
my guardians are not here now, whose consent is requisite.'
To these objections the Prophet replied thus: 'Thou
sayest, "I am old," but I am still older,
and it is no shame for women to be the wives of husbands
older than themselves. Thou sayest, "I have orphans,"
but the guardianship and education of thy orphans belongs
to God and His Apostle. Thou sayest, "I am jealous,
and cannot endure partnership," but I will pray
for thee, that God may take away those feelings from
thee. Thou sayest, "My guardians are not here,"
but all thy guardians, whoever they may be, and whether
present or absent, will not object to my marrying thee,
but be quite agreeable.' Thereupon Om Selma said to
her son Omar, 'Arise and marry me to the Apostle of
God.' He arose and gave her to the Prophet, though at
that time he was not yet of age. This happened in the
fourth year after the Flight. Her dowry consisted of
furniture worth about 10 dirhems.
As at that time Zeinab had just died, and her room
was still unoccupied, the Prophet assigned it to Om
Selma. On taking possession of the room, she found there
a small jar containing a quantity of barley, an earthen
pot, and a handmill. She ground a little barley in this
mill and boiled it into a porridge, adding some grape-bulama,
and pouring melted suet over it. This she took to the
Prophet, and it formed their wedding repast. It is recorded
that the Apostle of God remained three days with Om
Selma and then wished to leave, in order to pay the
portion of honour due to his other ladies, but Om Selma
seized him by his skirt and wanted to keep him back.
Om Selma died, 84 years old, A.H. 59 or 60, in the
reign of Yezid Ibn Moawia. It is said that when she
heard of the murder of Hosein, she cursed the people
of Irak. The current books contain 378 traditions attributed
to her, of which thirteen are generally acknowledged
as genuine.
7. Zeinab, Bint Jahsh, whose name Berre (= a
wound) his Excellency changed into Zeinab. Before the
Prophet married her she was the wife of Zeid Ibn Haritha.
When Zeid had divorced her, his Excellency married her,
in the year 5 A. H.
It is recorded that when, in the first instance, that
prince asked Zeinab in marriage for Zeid, she, supposing
he had asked her for himself, at once consented. But
on understanding afterwards that he had been asking
her for Zeid, she refused, for she was a lady of beauty,
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nature. She said to his Excellency, 'O Apostle of
God, I do not want Zeid, for he is a liberated slave.'
Her brother also, agreeing with her, did not accept
him, although that prince had bought, liberated, and
adopted him before the appearance of the prophetic mission.
When the Prophet said to her, 'Thy refusal is useless
thou must accept him,' she replied, 'O Apostle of God,
give me some time to think the matter over.' Then a
verse was sent down, enjoining compliance with the will
of God and His apostle; and Zeinab said, 'O Apostle
of God, if it is really thy will that Zeid should be
my husband, I will make no more objections, but accept
him.' Thereupon his Excellency gave her to his adopted
son Zeid, and also added a dowry.
Upwards of a year after their marriage the Most High
made known to His Prophet that in His foreknowledge
it had been decreed that Zeinab should be one of the
Prophet's own wives. Then a coldness arose between Zeid
and Zeinab, as it sometimes happens between husband
and wife. This went so far that Zeid, in anger, repaired
to the Prophet to complain of Zeinab, saying, 'O Apostle
of God, I wish to divorce Zeinab, because she is so
violent and reproachful towards me.' His Excellency
replied, 'Keep thy lady, and fear God.' When afterwards
God made known to him that Zeinab was to become his
own wife, that Excellency's blessed mind desired Zeid
to divorce Zeinab. But he was ashamed to command him
to do so, fearing the tongues of the people, lest they
should say, 'He has taken his adopted son's wife.' For
in the time of ignorance they regarded the marriage
with an adopted son's wife as illegal as that with the
wife of a natural son. But Zeid came again before his
Excellency, and said, 'O Apostle of God, I have divorced
Zeinab.' A verse also was sent down rebuking Mohammed
for having concealed in his mind that which God wished
to have manifested, and for having been afraid of the
tongues of men, when he said to Zeid, 'Keep thy lady,
and fear God.' It is reported that Aisha the faithful
remarked, ' If Mohammed had wished to conceal anything
of the Koran, he would surely have concealed this verse.'
As soon as Zeinab's legal time of waiting was over,
the Prophet said to Zeid, 'Go thou and ask Zeinab in
marriage for me.' The reason why he selected Zeid for
this service was, lest the people should think the affair
had been brought about by compulsion, without Zeid's
free consent; and also that he himself might have a
proof of Zeid's agreement and of his not retaining any
more love for Zeinab. When Zeid, in the discharge of
this commission, reached Zeinab's house, he found her
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